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7 Crucial Pre-Cheating Conversations
Cheating is perhaps the biggest relationship challenge a couple could ever face, and as such it is a topic that demands a great deal of consideration. Now, while most partners don’t enter into a...
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Is Your Affair Partner a Soulmate?
This question was asked on r/adultery. Is Your Affair Partner a Soulmate? “Soulmate is a naive word. Nearly as bad as twin flame. I do, however, thoroughly enjoy my AP. He is a cunning...
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Why Pre-Cheating Conversations Are Now Necessary
“Let’s not act like fears of being betrayed and hurt don’t resurface in each of our souls from time to time. Everyone is going to get hurt by someone they love at one point but if you’re clear on who...
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Anticipation Is What Adultery Is All About
“When can I get my hands on you again?” my lover texts. Anticipation makes you both crazy. That’s the kind of affair I’m talking about. Hot and steamy. The fogging up some windows kind. It’s napalm...
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The Conversations That Shield Your Relationship
Beyond the clichés of romance such as, “love conquers all” and “happily ever after” are the realties of genuine emotional needs that need catering to. And it is in understanding and tending to these...
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Everything I Told My Girlfriend About Me Is a Lie! What Do I Do Now?
Dear Dr. NerdLove: I am in a very messed up situation right now. And there’s really nobody I can share this with, so I thought of writing this to you if you could tell me what to do. There is a woman...
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When Your Marriage Is 99% Perfect… But You Are Still Looking for More
“My wife is my best friend and we have a great marriage, but…” “My husband is such a good husband, does so much for me and our family, couldn’t ask for better, but…” “My significant other meets 99%...
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A Cheater’s Best Friend
It seems, among other things, that coffee has the power to bring on deep philosophical contemplation. There is just something about the warm elixir that always seems to get the brain firing on all...
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If the Affair Is Physical, He Probably Doesn’t Want to Be With You
“But he said he loves me!” How many of your women friends in secret relationships have said that to justify an affair? It’s a thing an involved man says when he’s getting sex on the side, and doesn’t...
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Those Improbable Black Swan Events That Can Destroy Your Affair
What are the “Black Swan” events that can blow your affair out of the water? Too many. These are the unlikely outings. The ones you’d never expect. The “what are the odds?” circumstances. Chance...
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Cheating on a Cheater
Being an adulterer is already low. How much worse it can get? Bottom of the barrel low. The dregs at the bottom. When you make a second account on Ashley Madison to see if the guy you are giving some...
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My Marriage Was Saved When I Stopped Trying to ‘Fix’ My Wife
I couldn’t dial the number to the karaoke bar where my wife and I were regulars fast enough. “Jerry! I just found out Kathy’s been having an affair with the guy who works with you, and she wants to...
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The Many Different Types of Cheaters
Lately, I’ve been on a daytime TV kick. I watched a little Wendy Williams (duh) after the documentary, then decided to turn my attention to Cheaters. Ah, what quality trash TV! Cheaters is a juicy...
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The One Thing Most Partners Cheated on Come to Realize
“Eighty five percent (85%) of women who have a gut feeling that their partner is cheating turn out to be correct.” –Source Usually, after infidelity many a betrayed partner goes on a journey of...
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11 Ways to Properly Deal With Crushes When You Are Already in a Relationship
Having a crush/developing feelings for someone else while you’re already in a relationship can be pretty tricky It stirs up a whirlwind of emotions in you like for example the feeling of guilt,...
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“He Always Pursues Me, My Heart is Confused”: The Person Who Cheats on You...
The other day, I was chatting with some classmates, and one of them made a very insightful comment: every man desires success. If he can marry a virtuous wife, there’s no reason he won’t succeed in...
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7 Signs of Infidelity
When there is the apprehension that a partner might be cheating in a relationship, things can start falling apart quickly. Trust that has erstwhile been the foundation of the relationship may start...
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The Cheater’s Revenge
If you have ever wondered what goes on in the mind of the cheater when they become the cheated, or how does a cheater reconcile their own guilt with the searing sting of betrayal, then you will find...
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10 Signs Your Girlfriend Is Interested in Another Guy You Know
Are you starting to wonder if your girlfriend’s attention is drifting towards another guy, maybe even someone you know? You might be picking up on some changes in her behavior that are leaving you...
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A Guide to Ghosting
A lover disappears. Without warning. Oh, the agony. You’ll never know exactly why they left. What you did. What happened? It’s all a guessing game in affair land. Did I say something wrong? Probably....
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